21 Things I’ve learnt in 21 Years!

21 Things I’ve learnt in 21 Years!

I know, where have I been?! After Christmas I had my Birthday and I’ve set up my own YouTube Channel and my blog has been neglected but I’m back! And towards the end of January I turned 21. I feel like I have learnt quite a lot throughout those 21 years, however I’m sure I still have a lot more to learn! Anyway, I thought I would share with you, 21 things that I have learnt in 21 years!IMG_3588

  1. You do you! Don’t let anyone else’s opinions affect the way you think about what you’re doing.
  2. Always say ‘I love you’. You can never tell people that you love them too many times!
  3. Friends come and go! Don’t take it personally, it just happens.
  4. Don’t compare yourself to others! You always think other people are doing better than you, but don’t compare yourself to them. They are going at their speed and you are going at yours. Focus on yourself and you will cut out so much negativity.
  5. Everyone has down days. Don’t let it get to you too much when you’re going through them.
  6. Life’s short! Buy the eyeshadow palette (this is my personal motto!)
  7. Cut negative people out. Throughout school and college and even since, I have had plenty of negative friends who only bother to speak to me and see me when they have problems going on. They were rarely there for me so I simply stopped replying to their texts moaning about their latest relationship dramas and cut them out. And since doing this, I have a much more supportive group of friends around me and I am a lot more positive.
  8. Let things go. Yes people will say and do things that will really piss you off and really upset you. But honestly, life is too short to hold grudges, forgive and move on.
  9. Exercise really does make you feel better. I know! Whenever I’m feeling a little bit low, I always try to do a workout, even if it’s only at home! I have a board on Pinterest of loads of fitness and exercises that you can do at home and honestly, it makes you feel so much better.
  10. You reap what you sew. This couldn’t be more true! I am a total believer in that if you do good things then more good things will come to you! If you work hard, then you will definitely see rewards.
  11. A hot Lush bath solves 99% of problems! Had a bad day? Get a Lush bath bomb! Feeling down? Get a Lush bath bomb! Need to relax? Get a Lush bath bomb! Do I need to say any more?
  12. Family is the most important thing. To me, my family is the most important thing, I include my boyfriend and best friend in this category also and I would do anything for family members. I couldn’t imagine being without my family.
  13. Mental Health Issues aren’t something to be ashamed of – no matter if people make you feel that way! I’ve had relationships and friendships where I have been made to feel ashamed of my mental health! No one should feel ashamed about speaking out, so people who make you feel this way deserve to be cut out!!
  14. Don’t settle for less than you deserve. Whether thats a partner or whatever, you should never just settle for things.
  15. Trust your instincts. They are generally right!
  16. It’s ok to be single for a while! You don’t need to be in a relationship to be happy, and you should have time on your own to learn who you are and what you like – as cheesy as that sounds!
  17. Don’t waste your time on f**k boys! Seriously, why even bother? If you know a guy is bad for you, chances are he is! And he’s not gonna treat you any differently to how he treats other girls. Just go find yourself someone else.
  18. Be kind. Everyone has their own stuff going on, just be kind. And if you don’t have anything nice to say, just don’t say anything at all.
  19. Take time for yourself. You are the most important person, so instead of focusing on everyone else, just focus on yourself and take time for yourself. You’re allowed time out.
  20. Don’t let others opinions determine what you’re doing. You’re your own person, don’t let other people tell you what you should or shouldn’t be doing.
  21. Love yourself! No one will ever love you as much as you could love yourself. Instead of putting yourself down, focus on the positives and love yourself.

1 Comment

  1. bodyrenewsolutions.com April 9, 2017 / 1:22 am

    I tend to see things as being very black and white, but find that this usually leads to a lot of limiting beliefs.

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